being welcoming unlike what most think is not only welcoming persons into your life being welcoming for welcoming is always graceful is welcoming persons out of your life
Grace equally embraces "hello" and "goodbye" for Grace is Love
that persons come into our lives and for varied reasons leave ~ including death ~ is as natural as persons entering our lives, for varied reasons ~ including birth
by freely blessing persons to leave you remain open, receptive, for Life to bring persons into your life
the key is to become more and more gracious, so Grace-like in receptivity to Grace, you become the receptivity of Grace
without your trying to be graceful others sense the gracefulness you are are even though most will not understand what they have sensed
some on sensing this natural openness will flee feeling threatened by the quiet freedom others will draw nearer it, and receptivity meets receptivity
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Jesus represents for me, and many over the aeons, a Presence of Welcome, a Welcome presence welcoming, pervasive from long before he arrived on this glorious stage of Life. This welcome is spoken to me, over the years and since early childhood, especially through this word from the Gospel of John, "Come to me, all you toiling and loaded down, and I will give you rest. Receive my yoke upon you, be taught by me, and you will find rest for yourselves. For my yoke is not onerous, my burden light." He welcomes us, through this image of the ox needing rest from being over-loaded, as all sages do, to receive the Welcome and become the Welcome. So, as the Sky, communion with the Sky naturally leads us to being Sky-Like, a spontaneous, silent welcome, a spaciousness where persons are free to come and go and without our being judgmental of that. I have had many persons come and go in my life, indeed, few have remained, as I have moved much due to education and work. Love freely says "Goodbye," as Love freely says "Hello." I can feel blessing for everyone who left, regardless of why, but it has taken a long journey to get to this point of that blessing. For many years, I tended to be resentful of those I had felt hurt by, betrayed by. Now, it is simply what happened, and is over, traceless. Life naturally evolves with persons coming into our lives, some staying for a time, some leaving much sooner than we had wished; eventually, the image of death speaks of everyone leaving, and we each, too. Contemplation is resting in that Presence, inviting that Grace to transform us into the same Grace, the same graciousness. Life is beyond and free of anyone being here or not being here. We belong together, whether apart or not; Communion is present in absence and presence, equally.
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Presence, Grace, is receptive like sky, timeless welcome
Grace never says "No vacancy" Life knows no VIPs, deserving special treatment
Grace is offensive to those who want to live in a world of 'the privileged' and 'the under-privileged'
that so much religion has taught "us" and "them" only shows that much religion seeks to use religion to buttress its own agenda based on ignorance and fear
religiousness, however, in religion aspires to live free of prejudices, to love freely, fearlessly
other forms of social grouping often have the "us" against "them" agenda politics and nationalism being venues for officialized divisiveness, where one is defined by identifying "the enemy"
collective groups, then, become a hide-out from the courage to love and be loved, to be undefined, so free ~ often the one who chooses not to identify with the system becomes "unclean" ~ scorned, outsider, avoided, dangerous, heretic, unpatriotic, disloyal
few persons display the intelligence and courage to be an outsider for being welcoming to forfeit the blessing of the insiders to welcome the aloneness of being Graceful to fly free of the cage of collective prejudices
Grace, like the sky, is a Presence for anyone to move in and out of, freely, without judgment
nothing can un-deserve being in the Sky, nothing deserve being in the Sky, Grace freely offers Itself, cannot be earned, nothing to do to warrant it ~ no bargaining Here!
all religion, then, and spirituality is simply a means to return to the primal Welcome
whatever is done is to lead to not-doing so to receive passively this glorious, ever-present Welcome
in this Sky, there is no elect or not-elect only those who say "No" and those who say "Yes" to be hosted by Life
and to say "No" to Life is to say "No" to oneself
to say "Yes" to Life is to affirm the dignity and grace of being part of Being
*(C) Brian K. Wilcox, 2018.
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